Equality

While we aren’t typically what you might call political people, tonight the Becks are deeply saddened by the actions of our state government. In just 5 days, a marriage amendment went from non-existent through the House and Senate, then to on the ballot for a public vote.

I have a lot of thoughts on this… disgust that our government tried to sneak this one by. Outrage that human beings are being treated this way. Annoyed that our government thinks it’s appropriate to spend tax payer dollars on this, especially when there are real issues to be dealt with. Fear at the hatred and prejudice I’ve seen over the past 2 days.

But, since this blog is primarily focused on our adoption adventure, I’ll focus my response there as well. When we bring our baby home, I’m certain that our gay friends will be among the first here to greet it. Our child will be welcome into their home and their family’s homes, and they will always be welcome in ours. Despite questionable music taste, our gay friends are just more people in a wonderful family of friends who are supporting us as we go through adoption and will welcome our child with open arms.

Most importantly, I’m going to borrow a Facebook status update from a friend and colleague who’s anxiously awaiting the arrival of his first son:

When my son arrives (hopefully soon) the first thing I’m going to teach him… won’t be how to read… nor will it be how to swim… or how to tell a joke. The first thing I’ll teach him is that he should respect everyone… No matter their Race, Religion, Political Beliefs or their sexual preference. EVERYONE IS EQUAL — DESERVES MY SON’S RESPECT. AND DESERVES THE SAME RIGHTS THAT HE WILL BE AFFORDED!!!